I dont know really where to start, I dont want this to be a long post as I feel that takes a lot of reading and really I dont feel like i deserve that much attention tbh.
My dd is really getting me down atm, I cant move and I am really starting to resent it.
I adore her completely and she is my absolute light but she is attached to my hip. she is a real loner and although she has friends she will only tolerate them for 1/2 hour or so and then wants to be away from them.
Oh this is so hard to write as i feel like a complete bitch....I just feel that every waking moment is spent with her right next to me, (when im not in work and she isnt at school) she is 8 btw.
It is as if she sees herself as older than her friends and they are very childish and she wants to act much older. She is fantastic to be around, not demanding in terms of wanting this and that, and is a great help at shopping etc etc. I just cannot move, she seems so insecure about where I am and what I am doing ( I think that is the nail on the head)and she has to be there....I feel like I cant breathe sometimes and that just antagonises her and makes her more insecure...wanting to be with me even more. I just want her to have a happy time and be a happy child. She constantly turns on her older DS and they do torment each other but she will shout and scream at the top of her voice and come to me telling tales...Oh i just cant deal with it any more. It is makeing me cry just writing all of this, I dont know what to do.
I love her so much, but after the day i had with her yesterday, I dont feel like I can do another day like that. She followed me from room to room. In the end i shouted "oh fgs will you find something to do" at which point she broke down and said "but mummy i just want to be with you"
....writing this is making me feel so bad, I am such a horrible person, please help me, what do i do.
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please tell me you feel this way too....just sometimes
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claustraphobicashell · 22/12/2008 08:28
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