I have always suffered from anxiety and have posted on here before but I seem to rollercoaster throughout the year and feel like I can cope but at the moment, I have worsened and my anxiety almost stops me leaving the house. I passed my driving test after years of avoidance but a few things happened in the past year that made me think "I have to get on with my life and stop wasting it" which lead to somehow positively thinking my way into having my son and learning to drive. Now my son is 6 months old and I have been out with him in the car once. We were reversed into by a guy in a car park when I was leaving the car park. That just blew my little confidence and has lead to me panicking that I should not be driving as something really awful will happen when I have DS in the car and it will be all my fault.
I had to go to a party with DS the other day and it took me all morning to get up the nerve to actually phone the taxi (since I can not bring myself to drive now) and even then I almost didn't leave the house. When we got to the party, I spoke to about 2 people and DS fell asleep for the whole time so I was forced into talking to people which lead to me locking myself in the bathroom with DS for a while until I controlled shaking and stopped myself from crying. OH came to pick us up and of course he had no problem making conversation with everyone making me feel even more pathetic as he is such a confident, outgoing guy and I am this pathetic wallflower. I think he is getting fed up of me acting like this and his patience wears thin after a while.
How did you approach your GP? I am finding it very very difficult to talk to anyone at the moment and even when I do talk, I am so quiet people kind of give up. When I talk, people talk over me and its as if I have nothing of worth to say which really frustrates me. I have always had this problem. I guess I am my own worst enemy as OH is so confident and loves himself and talks about himself all the time and people are interested but I DETEST talking about myself as I think I am pathetic and have nothing interesting to say. I always think of stuff AFTER people have given up talking to me and I get so nervous I forget people (who I have known for years) names while I am talking to them (or trying to talk).
Anyway, I suppose I really have to see my GP now as nothing else I have tried is working (complimentary medicine/hypnotherapy as I ran out of money to pay for it/CBT was too expensive as well and I was too scared to go to GP as it means I will have to go over everything and I am scared they will just think I am an idiot).
Sorry for just waffling on but I am really in a bit of a state and although I can completely deal with DS and play with him no bother, I can't seem to conduct myself socially. I was fine with OH until recently I have found him impossible to talk to and feel completely isolated and alone. It has been a very difficult year with certain things happening that I thought I was dealing with but everything is starting to fray at the edges and I can't cope anymore...
I dont even know why I am typing all this but I think I just need to get it off my chest (again) and get some advice on how you handled this and what happened when you decided to get help... Thank you so much for reading this and for any advice.
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Seem to have developed almost crippling anxiety... Sorry this is loooooong
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Paranoid1stTimer · 22/09/2008 10:18
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