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tinx · 17/04/2008 11:36

hi guys need help



as i said before i have a ds and dh

i been so unhappy lately and i got talking to this guy from my country, i think i have feelings for him and i feel sooooooo guilty i have done nothing with him ,but i want to and feel like a evil monster

what should i do .

if you have to tear me to bits ill except it

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sleepycat · 17/04/2008 11:41

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tinx · 17/04/2008 11:45

im albanian my husband is to thats why i feel even more guilty

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ditavonteesed · 17/04/2008 11:51

Tinx we all have feelings that we wish we didn't, as long as you have not acted on them you have done nothing wrong.
keep smiling

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ibiza1 · 17/04/2008 11:51

do u still love ur hubby?

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tinx · 17/04/2008 12:15

yes i do still love my dh

but this guy makes me happy as well. when i been talking to him i feel more happy and it makes my relationship with my husband better sorry to say but i dont oftern want to sleep with dh my drive is low but recently i needed that kind of thing with dh more

sorry if this sounds really pathetic

but no one else to discuss it with

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ibiza1 · 17/04/2008 14:07

i suppose u just need to think do u love ur dh enough to stay with him, either u get on with your life with dh and try and make things better. remember why u first fell in love and try to rekindle things, it does get boring after a while but make if u tell him how u r feeling( well not all of it) and talk to each other.

or maybe make a new life for yourself?

its a hard call and i dont think there is a right or wrong answer u need to do what u think is best for u and children ? have u any

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