I am prone to depression and had dreadful PND when DS was born (he's nearly 5 now).
Recently it's got worse again. I feel low and isolated. My DH works away alot of the time and I am 200 miles away from my family who could offer so much support. However, DH will not hear of us moving back to where they are (Essex) and has more or less said that he will not go with me if I do make the move back.
My DS has just started school here and is in a lovely school where he is settled and happy so uprooting him would feel like a really wrong thing to do.
However, when DH is away I have no childcare or support and the only things I seem to do are work and care for DS. I DO have one friend locally (apart from work colleagues who I get on really well with) but she has her own children and her own life and often is not around in the evenings because of those responsibilities. I honestly feel quite isolated (and maybe that's my problem and nobody elses).
At the moment it is now the weekend again and I am just struggling to think of what I can do today - am honestly feeling like crying and tbh I just want to see my Mum or my sister but cannot get there as money is tight and the petrol costs are beyond me until next week. I am seeing my friend tomorrow for luch and then we are taking the children to a Christmas thing.
Have said to DS that today we will wrap up warm and go for a long walk plus do some shopping - just to kill time. At the moment there is also underlying anxiety (which I also suffer with from time to time)and I am beginning to obsess about my health and what might be wrong with me (it's stress but I am irrational when anxiety takes hold).
I have some Prozac left in the cupboard (managed to get off them in March this year) - they are in date and I am thinking about starting them again and seeing my GP next week. Feel a failure as it took me several years to get off all these drugs but I just cannot continue feeling like this.
I am losing it with DS when he plays up - am doing all the normal things like sitting him on the stairs when he misbehaves, however if he resists and plays me up I am finding myself shouting and - unforgivably - swearing at him. I know this is wrong so please don't flame me about it. Another reason I need to start the ADs again as I feel so guilty about the effect my depression might be having on DS.
DH is back on Xmas Eve - my Mum and Dad arrive on the 22nd - there is so much to look forward to but I just feel under pressure and stressed.
We are currently frozen as the central heating is broken - my landlord is supposed to be sorting this out but so far it has not been fixed which is an added pressure I just don't need at the moment.
Thanks for reading - just need to get it all off my chest.
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Mental health
Feeling very low at the moment
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fedupandisolated · 15/12/2007 09:06
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