I need some help as I?ve just had my sister on the phone for over an hour and don?t know what else to say to her.
Her much loved ds is 4 months old and she?s in a happy relationship with her dh. Her ds doesn?t sleep too well, awake 4 or 5 times a night and gets up really early. He?s a happy kid in general but he can be a bit wingy sometimes.
The thing is my sisters been getting really angry with him, when he pulls her hair she squeezes his hand till he lets go. Or if he won?t stop crying when she cuddles him she puts him down quite hard, so his head bumps a bit. The other day she said she felt like dropping him when he scratched her face. I can see how much she loves him but this behaviour is unforgivable
I spoke to her about it this morning and she said she can hardly control herself, sometimes she feels like she could really hurt him. She spoke to husband about it but he thinks she?s fine and he told her he knows she would never do anything to hurt their son. But I think this is his way of denying the problem. I told her she really needs to speak to someone about it, but she said she was too scared they?d take her baby away.
In the end she made an appointment with her hv who is coming to her house tomorrow. I have just spent the last hour trying to convince her to tell the hv the truth about her violent thoughts and the way she acts towards her ds.
I?m going to call her again in the morning, but it would be good to hear from anyone who has had a similar problem and I can pass on the advice.
Thanks
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PinkMonkey · 12/09/2007 21:23
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