I've name changed for this thread as its a sensitive issue.
Im due to go and see my GP to ask for antidepressants. Im not entirely sure they are going to help me but I need to try something for my children's sake. I'm finding myself irritable and angry the majority of the time. I fly off the handle at my pre schooler a lot and I'm really not proud of it. I get very frustrated when he wont do what I ask immediately. My husband said I'm like a Sargent major and I can't disagree with him. I can't relax enough to let him be a child.
I'm quite a volatile person and always have been. My mother was the same so maybe it's genetic or a learned behaviour. I don't know but I do know that I have a lot of bad childhood memories of my mums outbursts and I'm starting down the same path myself. My son is at the age where he remembers and talks about things that have happened and its heart breaking. Yesterday I screamed at him for lying on the floor and getting covered in crumbs, then I threw his chocolate down the garden path and made him cry. I'm so disgusted and ashamed. A few minutes after doing it I was sorry but at the time it's like I became possessed.
By way of background I have a one year old and a pre schooler, I'm a sahm and my husband doesn't get home until the kids are in bed. I don't live near family and lost a parent a few months ago. My marriage almost split up last year and although things are better it's still not what I'd call happy. So I suppose all of these factors could mean I'm suffering from some sort of depression? I know that I'm lonely and bored and find my life monotonous.
But if I'm honest I have always been prone to angry outbursts so I can't really totally blame my current circumstances. So maybe I have some sort of personality disorder? Or am I just a horrible person?
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Depression, Personality Disorder or something else?
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Realhousewifeofengland · 16/09/2016 16:56
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