I have 2 DC and when I was married to their dad I was physically and mentally abused. I did my best and thought the kids were sheltered from it as I would walk away etc. I managed to seperate when they were 1and 3 and I only found out last year he had abused them during the times I had forced them to go to his house EOW. I say forced as I feel that's what I did and I will never forgive myself for that. The eldest would scream and shout he didn't want to go and ex would pick him up and take him. They were fine when I collected them....
Anyway that was 6/7 years ago. Eldest has ASD severe anxiety and is aggressive when anxious. He often will hurt me when in a meltdown. His poor younger DC also sometimes gets the brunt. Eldest is under Camhs. When they go back to school I am seeking therapy to try to come to terms with what happened as I didn't tell anyone.
What I would like from you if it doesn't hurt too much, is what can I do for them? Iv seen another post when the poor person was absused aa a child and it's still affecting her deeply as an adult. How can I help my poor babies? I know there is no fix as such but can anyone share with me what helped them?
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Can I sensitivity seek advice from those that suffered abuse as a child please?
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Anothernamechanger1 · 18/08/2016 16:51
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