I have typed and deleted and re-typed this so many times. I guess that if I push "post" then I have to acknowledge this and face up to it but I'm scared of what that means and what will happen. Apologies for the length... I'm not really up to succinct and composed.
So today I have been fantasising about killing myself. Just walking into the sea and never coming back. I know this is very wrong and I won't do it as I couldn't do that to my 2yr old DD but I just feel so helpless and so so tired.
I am 31 + weeks pregnant... Haven't slept more than 3hrs of broken sleep in over 3 months due to nighttime nausea and vomiting and to cap it off have been in crutches since before Christmas due to SPD (which also makes sleeping very uncomfortable). I have been trying to be strong and holding it together but I feel at breaking point. I only have 3 more weeks at work but in those weeks I have to cover my role, my colleagues (who is on leave) and try and train my parental cover on some of the more technical aspects of my role. My job is a demanding city type job and I'm terrified of making a huge error as I can't concentrate or to be seen as being weak. I work in a mainly male environment and some colleagues love to pounce on anything that can be perceived as a reason to demonstrate women aren't capable in the role. I worked so hard to be here and I feel like I'm either going to lose it all by stuffing up or even worse just completely breaking down and cracking up.
I have not been able to stop crying today. I feel so alone and helpless and can't stop these horrible intruding thoughts. Then I look at my beautiful DD and feel so guilty for being like this when I know I am so much luckier than lots of other people. I am a nasty selfish person.
I'm scared to say anything to GP as I really don't want to take any medication and what if they take my DD or baby away? Then I would have nothing left.
I'm not sure why I'm typing this... I just wish I could sleep and then wake up and feel normal again.
No one knows how I feel. They all think I am doing fine. Type A personality. I guess I've been putting on a good front but I just can't go on like this anymore. I can't. Don't make me. I'm not waving, I'm drowning. My DH just thinks I need to relax. I am so angry with him. He doesn't get it. I don't get it. I just want it all to be over. Everything to go away. For me to go away. I miss my mum. God that sounds pathetic. I really wish she was still alive. You would think after 8yrs I would be over that. Guess I'm just weak and not as good as coping as I pretend to be. That's it really- I feel like I'm always living through someone else's eyes, pretending and hoping I don't get found out. I've not felt like this/as bad before and it terrifies me.
If you got this far thanks for reading. In not sure why I'm posting to be honest. Sorry.
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suicidal thoughts- pregnant
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kiwikaterpillar · 08/02/2016 03:43
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