Just that really. I feel really stuck, I don't like my life and I don't know how to get better.
I had a bit of a nightmare childhood, I was bullied, belittled, criticised and made fun of by my parents and have ended up with virtually no faith in myself.
I struggle to make friends, believing I am not likeable and fear failure so much that I avoid even hobbies that I enjoy, I'm so afraid I'll get things 'wrong'.
I don't like buying clothes anymore as I just think I am too ugly, so no point making any effort.
I haven't had a good job for 10 years now, just minimum wage jobs and end up being bullied by someone is EVERY job! I don't know why I'm always a target for these people. I've had to quit so many jobs as I just don't know how to stand up to people.
I would like to retrain to get a better job, but I have absolutely no faith in myself to be able to do this. Any training ideas end up in the bin, after my initial enthusiasm.
I live with my partner who works away half the month and when he is back has a busy social life with the sports he does, so we don't see much of each other and hardly ever go out. He is very caring and mostly supportive, but to be honest seems too busy to help me much and I don't expect him to...I am an adult and should be able to sort myself out, I just give up at the first hurdle! I get so down sometimes I am afraid he will leave me and I'll be totally alone. Tonight he said he was finding things difficult with me.
I have tried CBT self-help, which has been helpful, but I often feel too down to do that. I have tried anti depressants but just felt like a zombie. Therapists local to me are £80/hour, which I can't afford.
I know I need to work on my self-esteem...does anyone have any suggestions? I feel like I am at rock bottom & want to disappear.
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Low self-esteem is ruining my life
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GourmetGold · 07/07/2015 20:11
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