How do i know if this is peri-menopause, another bout of depression or marriage on the rocks?

[Somethingtodo]

My mood swings, rage, exhaustion, insomnia - is not helping our marriage - but hard to know if this is peri-menopause and will pass (in 4 years?) -- or if I am depressed again, or if I just hate my husband and our relationship is over. I am 47...

[LastingLight]

I think that seeing a doctor would be a good idea. Whether it's peri-menopause or depression, it will be easier to save your marriage if you can get those symptoms under control.

[SilverStars]

Definitely worth going to gp and get tests if possible for hormone levels - if it is peri-menopause that can be treated.