(My 'daughter' is not a blood relative but my son's best friend who we have known since 2010. She comes from a very abusive family, has lived with us on and off and calls me Mum. Just for background!)
My question is, after 5 months of care, should she have a CPN or other person managing her case and should there be a care plan? Lots more background below, sorry.
She is currently having various therapies at a dedicated mental health centre after a breakdown and multiple suicide attempts in September. The initial care really was excellent, with the crisis team visiting her daily and several psychiatric assessments arranged very promptly.
However, things are now getting very 'bitty'. She has one long term therapy going on- art therapy, which is a small group thing once a week with regular one-to-ones. She's also done a series of courses ranging from baking to CBT type things and has never had fewer than two days a week of this type of help, which again is amazing.
However, there is a core issue which is still not being addressed at all, her extreme fear of going out anywhere by herself. Initially this was dealt with by the centre funding cabs for her to get there and back, but now she is no longer considered an urgent case this has stopped. That means she either gets a lift from a friend in her group, or myself or her boyfriend's mum accompanying her (neither of us drive so it's two buses each way).
She has explained to her art therapist that if she can't get someone to go with her, she will have to stop coming and they have basically said 'okay then.' I don't know if they think she's bluffing but she really isn't. Therapy is beginning to get a lot harder anyway as they have started going deeper into the bad experiences of her past and this issue could really end up with her dropping it, which would be a huge waste of the time and money the centre have already put in (not to mention the huge amount of emotional energy her adopted family have invested).
So, we need to meet with them and try to sort this out (she can't sort it out alone, she finds it impossible to challenge authority). What I really want to do is have a proper meeting where things get put down on paper, but (finally coming to my question now, which I will put up top too as I didn't mean to write an essay) there doesn't seem to be a person who is specifically responsible for her case, no CPN or whatever and no care plan. Should there be? What are the policies for this type of thing? It would make things so much easier if there was one person to sort things out with! Currently I have spoken with her art therapist (who was only able to give me 5 minutes although she had been asked in advance to see me that day) and someone who was running one of the courses which has now ended in any case, nothing on paper either time and although I don't want to be pushy I truly don't think they understand the seriousness of this problem (especially as she always just nods mutely if they suggest anything she doesn't actually feel able to do!!! Then rings me up afterwards getting upset ARGH).
Sorry again, apparently I needed a vent.
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Some advice about my daughter's treatment?
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SilverDragonfly1 · 01/03/2014 14:04
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