I just wanted to get a sanity check on this situation.
At the end of last week I bumped into a girl who had been at the same school as me. She was in the year above and it was quite a coincidence as we're in a different town now to where our school was. In fact we've been living on the same road for the last 2 years without even realising it. We agreed to meet up at the end of last week and swapped phone numbers.
Later in the week I texted her just to check that she was still on for meeting up - but she didn't respond. I wondered if I had the wrong number, but I'm pretty sure that I don't, and I thought that if I did have the wrong number perhaps she might try to contact me anyway. However - nothing. Not a dicky bird from her.
I'm now fairly sure that she's just ignored my text and doesn't want to meet up. However, I saw her in the street today (we live on the same road after all) and she just smiled a bit sheepishly. She was with other people and just wandered on after saying hi.
It's really strange. How much effort on her part would it have been to meet up for a coffee, for half an hour? Or even to make an excuse and put it off. I feel really embarrassed and don't really know what to do now. Do I just blank her when I bump into her on the street. We both have young children and our paths are bound to cross again.
I'm not depressed, but I'm finding it really difficult to make friends at the moment and this really hasn't helped. Any thoughts or advice would be welcome.
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Am I going mad?? (rather long)
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thechocolatemonster · 12/06/2006 18:48
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