Ok I found out a few days ago that my brother has suffered from depression for several years now. It has gotten quiet bad at times and the worst it been it lasted a few months.
None of my family know anything about it.
I was contacted by a concerned friend of his who told me.
He lives at home because he does shift work but when he isn't working he goes to his own house which is a good bit away and very secluded. He told her that when the depression is bad he goes there to just 'ride' it out.
He is not married, has no kids so he spends all this time there on his own as far as I know. He was seeing someone and she used to spend a lot of time there as well and although I know she is still on the scene I'm not sure how much time she spends with him.
Anyway my main reason for posting is that I have no idea what to do or whether to say something.
I hate the thoughts that he is alone in his house a lot of the time. He is distant and irritable when he is around my parents. He does seem low and when I was told it put a lot of sense to stuff and his behaviour iyswim.
He is not taking any meds at all, I have been told. He said to her that he feels like a freak.
What I'm asking if it was you woudl you say anything to him? Or if anyone out there suffers depression would you want your sister to say anything. I certainly don't feel I can ignore it.
I'm so confused.
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I could really do with some advice please...
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VeronicaMars · 23/09/2010 17:27
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