Thanks Miss A
I had to transfer some money from savings account to pay for Monday's large Sainsbos bill, but am expecting a chq in the post from DH for £600, this week.. so thats good (it will go straight back into savings as ive paid all the bills this month).
The other day you were talking about your DPs and DHs working away and not being their during the week.. We've done this for 19 years!!
However he is saying he's now retiring this year - early, he's 3 years younger than I - (when exactly I dont know, hes been saying it all year! but I reckon it wont be before December now .. I think he is waiting for his year bonus , and that makes sense )
So I am going to have to get used to him being here! - its ok.. I still adore him (mostly, and he says me, mostly
) so we will be fine!
But I am now seriously looking at garden chalets as a hobby room (for me, not him!! 
luckily we have a huge garden , I can tuck one up the end and he will never find me .. oh yes, but of course ill still be at work all week for a couple of years yet 