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The Hut of Gl/Doom Part VI - And Yes, We've Tried Fecking Relaxing!

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OracleInaCoracle · 09/03/2008 09:49

new home. I liked the decor in the old one, nless someone wants to redecorate!

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shreksmissus · 09/03/2008 09:54

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OracleInaCoracle · 09/03/2008 09:57


its very difficult to ccept that your life perhaps isnt going to go the way you want isnt it?

dh and i are trying for 1 more month then i am getting an implant, just had enough. as you say, no more fight!
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shreksmissus · 09/03/2008 09:59

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SheherazadetheGoat · 09/03/2008 10:00

i LOVE the thread title!

lissie i am at the 'just one more month' stage.

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OracleInaCoracle · 09/03/2008 10:02

hi goat. how long have you been at that stage?

bye shreksmissus.

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duchesse · 09/03/2008 10:54

Aha, a new Hut. Good good.

Is the sun over the yardarm yet?

Does anybody know if I will get laughed out of the doc's surgery if I go and ask for investigations at age 40?

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OracleInaCoracle · 09/03/2008 10:55

i wouldnt have thought so

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NorthernLurker · 09/03/2008 10:58

Ladies - Don't want to intrude but just wanted to stick my nose in the door and say 'Good thread title' - Also I've got a crate of vodka and a huge amount of chocolate here - can you find a home for it?

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duchesse · 09/03/2008 10:59
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SheherazadetheGoat · 09/03/2008 10:59

i got to this stage aobut 2 years ago! then got over ti and now have been back here since last month.

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OracleInaCoracle · 09/03/2008 11:10

Thanks northernlurker!

lol goat, odd isnt it?

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soosy · 10/03/2008 09:47

just one more month, or my case one more ivf attempt it is all the same really. I have to keep going until I have another DC or i am unable to continue, through lack of raw materials or age (or both).

About Hughes... I was tested long ago and was a borderline positive, then had second test, which was negative. Don't hold your breath for results on the NHS they take about three months. I understand that the treatment is to take aspirin (75mg) as soon as you find you pg and then you have to do heparin injections throughout your pg. A friend has just been diagnosed, took five second trimester mc's before she got referred.

Thank god for the new thread, Heard all the mums at school talking about their pg's and or somebody just had a baby, wanted to cry all the way home....

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shreksmissus · 10/03/2008 14:14

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soosy · 10/03/2008 21:48

Shrekmissus, Have been referred to a gynae (excuse spelling) as the Haematologist will not be interested for one second about you getting pg (even if she is a complete cow). If I were you I would go back to your GP and get him to refer you to a ob/gyn who specialises in this kind of treatment, and get your results to take with you. If you are in London, the hospital to get referred to is St Mary's Paddington they are the specialists in mc. Good Luck.

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poppy75 · 10/03/2008 21:52

Hello guys - good job the vodka was brought in earlier I've been drinking loads this weekend and long may it continue!!!

Soosy my friend also had about 4 mc's before they diagnosed her. Luckily she has just managed to get to the end of nine months and is due this week

I can't ttc until May but have decided to go to my consultant appointment see what the next step is and then decide if I want to ttc any more. I have decided that I couldn't go through IVF I am just not strong enough for it. Ttc has turned me into a really wierd person and I just want to get back to who I used to be. So I think if consultant wants me to go on clomid I'll try it but that's it.

So I am going to try and have break from mn and all ttc things, may pop in again if things get really bad. Good luck everyone and hope we all have a fab summer

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OracleInaCoracle · 11/03/2008 11:10

will miss you poppy, but totally understand.

soosy, thats shit. im sorry.

hows everyone else, or is that a silly question?

still no fecking period, no sign of it at all and am now freaking out about every twinge or if my shoulder aches... got bfn yesterday so waiting now for appt to have a blood test. im shitting myself!

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OracleInaCoracle · 11/03/2008 18:42

fucking wanky shitty bastard doctors.
really, wtf's wrong with them?

been to docs today, got appt for 5.50 and he said what can i do for you?
"well" sez i "my period is a week late, shows no sign of starting and im a bit worried, its been every 28d since i was 18"
"lab urine test was a bfn" sez he
"lab urine test was a bfn with ds and my ep"
"well you have to be pg to have an ep" (had to restrain myself from throttling the wanker at this point)
"i know" sez i "but if i am pg then i am 5w. my tube ruptured at 6w4d"
"well what do you want me to do?"
"a blood test"
"i cant, lab has gone"
"can i come in tomorrow?"
"you'll have to get an appt"
"can you book me one?"
"no"
"so what do i do?"
"come back next week"

"thanks a fecking lot"
"oh mrs w..."
"yes"
"the signs to look out for with an ep are abdo pain, abnormal bleeding and shoulder tip pain"

"in feb i had no abdo pain, bled like a period and shoulder tip pain only occurs when the tube has burst and you are bleeding internally. you told me i wasnt pg then too"

tosser.

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duchesse · 11/03/2008 19:22

Bloody fecking arsing doctors. Sadly this is the level of inanity I've come to expect from male doctors. Could you ring back tomorrow and ask to see a female GP? It's your right to see a woman GP if you prefer. And they are often better than the men.

Failing that, could you ring your EP unit and explain your case tomorrow am. Your doc clearly has no idea how many Mcs and ectopics you've had.

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soosy · 11/03/2008 21:15

Lissie, bypass GP, they have no idea what they are talking about and ring the hospital you went to before. They will have your notes. TBH I have also seen Nurses at my GP as they seem to be more clued up.

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downbutnotout · 11/03/2008 21:25

Hey, can I hang out here - I'm all done slagging off Delia's latest elsewhere. And I like vodka - or at least I did when I wasn't denying myself all sorts of things I like in order to try and conceive (unsuccessfully).

Give your doctor a kick from me lissie - mine's a wanker too!

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OracleInaCoracle · 12/03/2008 08:39

thank god, thank god, thank god! period has started! only 7d late.

hi dbno, welcome to the hut!

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SheherazadetheGoat · 12/03/2008 09:42

sorry lissie. my doctor is v. lovely which is crap cos she keeps making me cry.

well i am ovulating and dh i coming home at lunch time. christ knows what keeps us at it?

off i go to try relaxing [clenches teeth]

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OracleInaCoracle · 12/03/2008 10:03

happy humping!

my usual doc is lovely. this was the same doc who refused to refer me to LWH following my 6th mc and refused to organise a scan for me or consider prescribing progesterone/painkillers during it. wanker!

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