I hope it's OK to post in this topic as I'm not bereaved yet, but I really need to talk to people who have been through this already. Mum has been admitted to the local hospice today to try and stabilise her as she has been vomiting for days, not even keeping medication down, she's in so much pain and anti-emetic injections are not working. She was supposed to be starting a course of palliative chemotherapy this week but she is no longer strong enough.
I'm being quick now, but I'll elaborate later as needed. Basically I live a way away and I don't want to panic (me or her) but on the other hand I want to make sure I'm there if she takes a turn for the worse. I tried speaking to the hospice today but all they did is get mum to ring me (which was lovely, don't get me wrong, but I wanted to speak to a member of staff honestly about my mum's situation).
Just now, I would really appreciate it if anyone who has been through this - losing a parent to advanced cancer - could give me a bit of insight into what happened after the hospice first came into the equation. I know everyone's different, but I'm at sea here. Will post again later. Thanks xx
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gaelicsheep · 06/01/2014 17:44
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