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As we go through this painful journey together

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lavandes · 10/02/2013 21:24

As we go through this painful journey together we share, cry, scream and shout but we never judge, we know that there is always someone to listen. We always remember our precious children who will never be forgotten and will live on forever in our hearts.

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lavandes · 10/02/2013 21:26

Always remembering our beloved Richard, loved and missed so much every minute of every day xx

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lavandes · 10/02/2013 21:27

If someone can start a thread with a poem please feel free. xx

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chipmonkey · 10/02/2013 21:34

Remembering Sylvie-Rose 16/8/11 - 4/10/11, my beautiful girl. Love you always xxx

My5boysandme · 10/02/2013 21:43

Remembering my Darling Dexter 21/06/12-24/09/12 missing you more with every beat of my heart, love you til the end of the time xxx

Bluetinkerbell · 10/02/2013 22:04

Remembering my precious Sterre, 20th June 2011. Love, like starlight, never dies! X

SaintVera · 10/02/2013 23:30

Remembering my beautiful boy, Sean. 16.4.96 - 9.7.12. Extraordinary, hilarious, unique, severely disabled, deeply loved. I will never stop missing you.
Thank you Lavandes.

shabbatheGreek · 11/02/2013 01:59

Thanks for the new thread Lavandes. xxxxx

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lavandes · 11/02/2013 08:06

Morning ladies xx

I am sorry the name of this thread is bereavement. That was not my intention I am rubbish at this I have asked mumsnet to correct it for me.

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shabbatheGreek · 11/02/2013 08:22

Morning girls xx

Wouldn't worry about it at all Lavandes. It took me ages before I sussed out how to start a new thread....and I usually do it wrong even when I realise how to LOL. MNHQ will help you sort it I'm sure. The important thing is you started it for us - would hate it to just disappear xxxxx

SaintVera · 11/02/2013 08:27

I would hate it to disappear too. I feel very lonely sometimes in my real life

shabbatheGreek · 11/02/2013 11:23

It cant and wont dissapear love - dont worry. We have all stuck together for too long to let that happen. I can feel lonley in a room full of people in real life so I know just what you mean xxx

chipmonkey · 11/02/2013 11:47

It will never disappear, Vera. Someone will always carry the fire!Smile

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lavandes · 11/02/2013 13:07

Mumsnet have sorted it, I wanted the thread to to say that we are all in this together and we will always support eachother. Smile

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chipmonkey · 11/02/2013 13:08

Well done, lavandes!

shabbatheGreek · 11/02/2013 13:22

Perfect title Lavandes xxxx

frasersmummy · 11/02/2013 15:26

Hi all.. I have been really awol for a long long time now... I meant to get back to posting on the previous thread but there were so many new people and so many on going discussions that I didnt know where to start

so I thought I would wait for the new thread to show my face again

Anyway .. Thinking of my firstborn little boy Fraser.. stillborn almost 9 year ago now ...

How the hell can it be 9 years .. how??? I cant believe its anything like that long since I said hello and goodbye to my little boy

Life has changed so much since then

chipmonkey · 11/02/2013 15:31

Hi, fm!

shabbatheGreek · 11/02/2013 15:49

Good to see you FM - have missed you. xxx

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lavandes · 11/02/2013 16:19

Hi fm so good to hear from you. You were one of the lovely ladies who helped me so much in the beginning. I will always be grateful for that xx

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mumof2teenboys · 11/02/2013 18:09

Remembering James, my first born who died 03/07/2012. Aged 22 years.

I love you so much my beautiful funny stroppy boy. I miss you the same xxx

Helyantha · 11/02/2013 20:13

For my glorious DS3, bouncing in his Tigger suit in heaven. Loved always x

shabbatheGreek · 11/02/2013 20:25

For my precious sons xxxx

MiaAlexandrasmummy · 11/02/2013 23:20

Remembering my gorgeous little red-headed Mia, full of smiles and love. I am so proud of you, my darling. xx

shabbatheGreek · 12/02/2013 06:44

Morning girls xx

frasersmummy · 12/02/2013 10:44

morning everyone.. Ross is with grandad today and I took the day off to catch up with housework/watch a movie/ chill

But realised that today is mum and dads wedding anniversay- well would have been so I am taking Dad to the cemetary... for those of you who dont know Frasers garden is right next to Mums. Its nice because I feel Mum is looking after Fraser (though it should be me) but on the other hand it feels like I cant just go "see mum" or go "see Fraser" for one one time

I am going to buy my boy a new windmill before we go ... last time I was there his bright red and yellow windmill was bleached pure white by the sun

I find as the years go by I visit Frasers garden less and less.. it used to bring me comfort.. it doesnt any more. So today I dont feel like visiting .. really bad I know but I know I can say that on here and not be judged
But I cant go visit mum's garden without visiting my boy..

I have just read that back and it makes hee haw sense hopefully you get some of what I mean