DS (now 2ys 8 mths) has had TERRIBLE mealtime disciplne, which all started ages ago when he was constantly poorly and I tempted him to eat in front of a video. As soon as he could crawl/walk, he has never wanted to sit still for ANYTHING esp food, and although he will eat a wide range of food and isn't especially fussy, he would just escape, climb down and refuse to eat after the first few mouthfuls sated his immediate feeling of hunger. In the Autumn the HV said he was underweight, and I have been getting increasingly BORED with him not having a settled eating routine. I have read numerous sensible and sensitive advice on what to do, (such as 'don't make an issue of it'but two weeks ago I decided enough was enough, and just FORCED him to sit on my lap until he had eaten a proper meal. He squirmed and struggled to begin with (for about 3 meals) and I just said 'no, we're sitting here and having our dinner'.
Anyway, it seems to have worked. He will now sit at the table and eat 75% of his dinnner, no video, just active conversation. Have I got away with bad parenting - or will it come back to haunt me!?
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I have broken all the rules re mealtime discipline!
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Blu · 30/03/2004 15:54
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