My DS is 15.5mo - I realise this is still fairly young on the grand scale of things. If I had never read anything about development I probably wouldn't be especially concerned but I have read lots so I am...
I am not worried about his milestones per se, the main thing I am fretting about is that I just don't think he understands us. He has been diagnosed with a bit of glue ear which probably doesn't help, but he doesn't seem to respond to words, questions, choices, etc. He often doesn't respond to his name (sometimes he does look round, but I am not sure how much of that is tone of voice rather than the word IYSWIM). If I said 'get your boat/train/cup' he wouldn't do it or show any understanding.
a quick rundown of his development
- he has stuck his tongue out pretty much constantly since birth. Everyone comments on it but no one has ever thought it was an issue, although I have always worried about it a bit. He has good control over it, can put it back in plenty, we never had any issues with bf etc. He does seem to stick it out rather less now.
- he is not yet walking but is an excellent crawler, climber, shelf-fiddler etc.
- he has not yet come out with any words but he babbles lots and lots. Plenty of mamama and dadada and bababa but not necessarily to/about the right people. He looks very happy and pleased with himself while babbling though.
- he is very smiley, makes plenty of eye contact, is extremely affectionate, can clap and wave and touch his hands to his head. He plays well alongside other kids and with us, and is certainly not happier left to his own devices, the opposite if anything.
- he doesn't point and can't (always) follow a point at all. If he sees animals or anything like that he looks at them and takes it all in but doesn't get excited or anything.
- he is a terrible eater, very fussy, frequently refuses food both at home and at nursery and has done since I started weaning.
- he goes to nursery 3 days a week where he has been fine except the eating thing.
- he is a terrific sleeper both at naptime and night-time.
...So, what do people think? I am right to worry, or will it just 'come'?
Thanks for all and every comment - sorry it's so long!