Everything has become a blur and I'm unsure of what is normal behaviour now and what is him just taking the piss so please bare with me.
Dh works full time. I am at college part time so am at home more than he is. He also does alot of the housework but this is his choice, I don't make him. He insists on taking over in the kitchen for instance, does 90% of the cooking BY CHOICE. One thing he won't do is ironing so fair enough, I take on that responsibilty. But because I'm at college, I don't have all day every day to do housework so I do get behind with it sometimes. Yesterday I had a massive pile of ironing so I spent 2 HOURS going through it. Not to mention doing breakfasts, the school run, 2 lots of laundry, hanging out in garden, taking DS to dentist, making dinner etc. DH comes home with some overalls and asks me to iron them. This was at 7pm last night. By this time I was getting tired, trying to sort DS out with bedtimes etc. He also wanted me to "sort the kitchen out" so he could do some baking . I have an eye infection atm so my eyes were red raw, stinging like mad, itching, I could barely see so I put off ironing these overalls. 9pm he asks again. I said "not now, I'm tired, my eyes are hurting and I'm not feeling great". 11pm he says "wow look at the time - and you still have to iron those things for me yet!" I snapped "have you SEEN my eyes??? why can't you just do it for this once??" so he snaps back "because I do everything else, ironing is YOUR job". He doesn't do EVERYTHING else. I'm sure he thinks I just sit at home watching TV all day.
So aibu to insist that if he wants something ironing at an awkward time he should do it himself? Before today he has tried to get me up at 5am to iron his work clothes before he sets off. I find it a bit pathetic that he can't do it himself every now and again.
Or AIBU because he works full time and I don't??
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SantaCruise · 24/06/2010 11:34
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