Sorry this is more of a WWYD rather than AIBU but I would like to get as wide range of opinions as possible.
At the moment we (DP, DD and I)live about 5 mins from my mum. Me and mum are extre,ely close and we all see a lot of her. She has DD a lot for me when I am at work - I realise how lucky I am and am very grateful and try to show her this whenever possible.
For some time now my mum has mentioned about us all living together - she says it half jokingly but I know deep down she would love it to become a reality.
I have never taken much notice before but since having DD I have started to think about it more seriously. There are just so many advantages:
- Together we can all afford somewhere much nicer than either of us can do apart.
- We can afford a better area in terms of schools etc
- Most importantly I think it would be a lovely environment for DD to grow up in. Mum and DD adore each other and I know mum would love to see her everyday. I love the idea ofa big family home and genuienly think 3 generations living togther is going to become more and more common given house prices etc.
I know there are bound to be teething difficulties but we have all sat down and talked about it and agreed that we will set some ground rules before it happens. We have also agreed that we need to be quite specific about the property lay out (ie seperate reception rooms, own bathrooms etc). I should also add that DP gets on great with my mum and is very much behind the idea.
So, give me a reality check - am I mad and missing the obvious issues this could cause? Would any of you buy a place with your parents?