DH and I have been invited to a wedding next month - DH is the best man and it is quite a small wedding - I think they are having about 18 people. I assume they do not want any children there as our DS was not on the invite.
Anyway, when we first knew about it (almost a year ago), I asked my mum if she would look after DS as we will need to stay overnight as it is quite far away. She agreed and even said to us that we may as well make a weekend of it.
She lives about 400 miles away, so she would need to come down and stay for a few days anyway.
Anyway, she was down in London for the weekend and we met her and my stepdad for lunch yesterday. I nipped to the toilet and she came in and said "I have a bit of a problem - the only time we can book our holiday without it being really expensive is the weekend of the wedding - do you think DH's mum would look after DS?"
I was pretty stunned. The reason we asked my mum in the first place is because DH's parents are 71 and 79 and both have back problems which means they find it difficult to lift our very heavy DS out of the cot. (They are ok babysitting at night when he's asleep or couple of hours in the day, but a whole weekend would be too much).
Anyway, even if they could they are at a wedding anniversary that night and staying over. I told my mum this and she suggested that I could take DS and his 17 year old cousin to the wedding and she could stay in the room with him for the evening while we are at the reception .
So she wants me to turn up at someone's wedding with my DS who is not invited and my 17 year old neice who is also not invited!!!
Obviously I cannot do this. I feel really let down but I am damned if I am going to beg her to babysit now.
I haven't told my DH yet - he will hit the roof - he has paid for 2 nights in the hotel at £200 a night!
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TheChicOfIt · 22/02/2010 11:16
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