Hi
I'm having the age old problem with childre and Christmas when you're separated.
My ex and I take turns having our boys over Christmas. Every year they go to his mums on Christmas eve from about 2 til 9, then either I'll have them all day Christmas day or he will pick them up in the morning and have them all day(alternating each year).
My problem this year is that he now wants to have them for half of Boxing Day too (his wife's mother's birthday).
My youngest (11) is really not happy about this and wants to spend Christmas day with me, my eldest (14) says he doesn't mind (bless him, he doesn't want to upsent his volatile dad) I would be perfectly fine with this arrangement if it wasn't for my youngest not being happy at all. He has tried to speak to his dad but he makes him feel bad by saying STUPID things like 'do you love your mum more than me then?' (I can't quite believe he'd be as irresponsible as that, but then again I can)
In the past when I've tried to talk to my ex about matters like this, he completely flies off the handle telling me 'he has to do what I say, etc, etc' and I don't want to cause problems that my children will have to suffer the consequences of.
Really getting stressed about how I can handle this situation.
Any ideas?
Maggie
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MaggieMay1 · 01/12/2009 09:01
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