Hi don't know if I'm BU don't think I am. Anway I've got three DDs 4.5 (jst started school), 3 and 10 months. My two older want to play outside round the back all the time which I'm all for as long as the weather is ok and they don't go out the gate (which they don't tend to do)
Anyway there's these two little girls 5 and 4 who keep coming round (which Im really don't mind) but there mothers never approach me to make sure this is ok and never return the favour. They are allowed to basically do want they want and it's a case of out of sight. The other night I went balistic because my 3 year old had done a pee on the grass round the back (I know minging) I obviusly brought her in and told her that it was totally unacceptable. I have since learned the reason she done it was becuase the 5year other girl done it and told her it was ok to do it.
I spoke to the OC the day after the incident and told her never to do it again and if she needed to go to the toilet then she could use ours. Do you know what she and the OC did they went and pee'd outside my gate I was livid and seriously rthought about banning them but feel this is a bit much as they're only young.
Last night my DDs had money out with them that I didn't know about and the two OC took it off them and went to the shops round the corner and bought sweets and proceeded to eat them and gave my DDs one each!!!! To say I'm angry is an understatement. I have spoken to them and told them they shouldn't have done that.
I reaaly am at a loss to what to do. I've thought about approaching their mothers but not sure how they'll react and don't want to cause a war!!
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Kaza1 · 27/08/2009 12:06
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