Last Friday dcs and I went to our usual mum and pre-schoolers swim session at some nice little baths in a small village.
I've been taking my two since ds2 was 12m old to that particular pool cos its sooo hard work - little cubicles round the edge of the pool, trying to get me, two wriggly dcs dry and dressed after in such a confined space.
The toddler session takes place right after a public session, usually full of working people having a lunchtime swim. Last Fri there were the usual 'workers' plus cos of the school hols - a mum with 3 kids the youngest of whom looked about 8 and the other two say 10 and 12.
As we got into the water I noticed the lifeguards gawping open mouthed towards the doors. I looked. I gawped. So did everyone else.
I judged
The mother and 3 kids were leaving the swimming pool dressed in swim suits, towells wrapped round them like they'd just got out of the bath at home, and one child had bare feet.
They were carrying their dry clothes in their swimming bags.
It would never occur to me to do that either to get to the car or get home if they live in the village.
The lifeguards were stunned!
Please tell me I was right to judge (but I'll be interested to hear any pacifists who can think of reasons why I should not have judged )
AIBU?
Another swimming pool judgey thread... was I, all the parents and the lifeguards right to pull on our judgy pants?
Flibbertyjibbet · 22/04/2009 15:21
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