Would really like some opinions as this is an issue that keeps coming up.
My 9 month old DD is very settled in her routine and as a result of which she goes to bed without any fuss at all at about 7 every night - in the early days she was a nighmare and we never thought we would get to the point where she did this and slept through till morning.
Some family want us to visit for Christmas but have said they are fully booked with other family and suggested we stay in a hotel. I have said to DH that I don't see the point in staying over (its close enough that we could just visit for the day) because we would all have to leave at 7 and put DD to bed in the hotel room and we would obviously have to stay in the hotel room too - so not much of a fun night. DH and the rest of the family are of the opinion that we should put DD to sleep in a room upstairs then wake her when we would want to leave (about 11pm) for our hotel room.
I don't want to do this as I would feel really mean waking her up like this and I think she would be very upset. Also it might take a while for her to settle in a strange room in the first place so it could be quite a stressful night for all of us.
I feel really fed up and a bit down because I feel that family keep being inconsiderate of the fact that we now have a baby and feel that noone gives us any support or consideration (i.e. an offer of accommodation if we are going to stay over, or an offer of babysitting once in a while, some understanding that we can't just jump in the car and drive for hours like we used to) and as a result we have to say no to everything.
Am I being too uptight about her routine to not want to wake her up like this? My suggestion is that we just go for lunch and leave in time to get DD home around bedtime. At the moment I actually feel like just not going at all as I feel totally fed up with all of them. AIBU?
AIBU?
to not want to wake DD (9 months) in the middle of the night just so we can all have a nice meal?
jumpyjan · 19/10/2007 09:40
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