So have been looking for rental property for several months so can move in with OH and our children (from previous marriages). Struggled to find anything that's big enough and in the right location. Perfect one came up last Thursday but owners wouldn't rent to us until they had met us as they live next door and wanted to meet us in person. Anyway OH said he was too busy until tomorrow (6 days later) to go and meet them. I was worried we'd lose it and sure enough today they rented it to some one else. I am really upset as I know it's unlikely another one will come up and really not sure what will happen now, I guess my OH will move in to my rented house which is far from ideal location or size wise. We've ended up arguing about it and what's really upset me is the day we saw it he prioritised going out for lunch with his mate down the pub over going to meet the owners and get the rented property sorted. He says he couldn't have predicted this would happen as its been in the market a few months and not rented yet, but there was always a chance someone else would come along. He's got angry with me and said I'm just looking for someone to blame, and blaming him won't achieve anything. But I am angry with him that other things took priority. I know part of his commitment was work things but he has plenty of flexibility with work. I guess I'm angry with myself that I didn't do more to get him to go and see the property. I guess I'm also worried there's an underlying reason he didn't make time to go and see it ! AIBU for being angry that he didn't make the time to go and see the property owners for nearly a week?
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Andrewsgirl · 11/10/2016 19:28
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