So I met him at a training course that lasted several weeks. We got on great and he was pretty flirty (but he flirts with anything remotely attractive and under 40) so that means nothing.
Our group then decided to meet up outside of the training as we got on. Outside of training he seems terrified of me. He flirts with everyone but me and completely ignores me! I actually found him quite attractive but would never ever have flirted as at the time he had a girlfriend but I'm really worried he picked up on it so is keeping his distance now.
I'm not expecting anything with him but it would be nice to not be ignored and stared at in a grumpy way! I'm rubbish at psychology and don't really understand it as I've never done anything bad towards him and I've never been flirty back.
Whenever the night ends he will always be lovely and spend some time asking me to contact him if I need help with anything but thats only at the end.
No matter where I am he will walk to so he does like being around me but not actually speak to me.
He has me on social media but never contacts me.
He seems genuinely scared of me and avoids any eye contact. I'm not going to ask him whats up (well maybe if I get drunk I will haha). It's not really worth upsetting him and caushing more awkwardness within the group. Can anyone shed some light onto this situation please. I know you won't know but what seems to be going on here and any ideas on what I can do to put it right.
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definetlynotbored · 30/09/2016 20:39
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