My bil is 28 and never had a job he currently get an allowance of about 12k a year and lives in a very nice part of town in in laws flat
He has adegree in a subject that is pretty much a flight of fancy and is not getting a "proper" job because he is waiting to be discovered
He is quite depressed tbh we feel it's most likely caused by nit much purpose in life meaning he has nothing to get up for he was hoarding and nut really looking fire the flat so inlaws got a cleaner
Dh wanted inlaws to tackle the elephant in the room he's is very bright and really dh thinks he needs to do one of 3 things
Get any job
Get a art related job
Or re train nd get a job
However because he's 28 and never worked not even a staurday job it's unlikely any one would hire him he's also prone to switching off his phone that's also paid for by in lawsand taking off
Aibu to think this is really a Situation off there own making and they really needed to be firmer with him but it's a bit late now when it's likey he quite past being able to handle a job of any kind and because he's so used to being funded by in laws he won't here of even taking somthing art related it has to be a jobbing artist or nothing and tbh the type of art he dose is not the type you could even buy and hang on the walls
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To think my bil is unemployable and in laws will have to fund him
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pleasemothermay1 · 01/09/2016 20:03
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