I won't go into a huge back story here but myself and sil have had a few run in's.
If you are interested I posted under the username of Slicedanddiced about one of the huge ones (EPIC rant starting sil and 'd'p).
Anyway we have been invited to sil's birthday meal on Saturday.
Mil told us the details and invited us a couple of days ago. Very expensive restaurant that we can't afford, quite upmarket and later on at night.
Now everyone I the family knows that babysitters or changing our routines aren't really an option for us. Dd3 is autistic and becomes extremely challenging with a change of scenery/routine.
Also ds, 17 weeks, is breastfed. He won't take a bottle of expressed milk (dear god I've tried 😄)
So we have declined. Haven't heard from sil but mil has called up to say how upset sil is.
I can understand her wanting her brother the there. I suggested he go in his own but he didn't want to.
Aibu in any way because judging by the shitstirms we've had before (see thread mentioned above) I know this decision is going to be blamed solely on me.
And I'd just like to check if Aibu or not before the shit shower commences.
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To not go to sil's 40th birthday meal (and possibly cause ww3) because of ds.
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PeppaJetta · 15/08/2016 13:12
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