I'm early 30s and have been with my DP for 3 years. At work I have never discussed my thoughts either way re getting married. I'm
not actually that bothered either way. I think it would be nice to be married but I wouldn't actually want a wedding FWIW. Yet there are two female colleagues that repeatedly ask me. "When do you think he will propose?" Or every time we are about to go on holiday "Maybe he will propose?"
I've just had a weekend away and one of them (who I don't actually like and is the well know office gossip, fat shaming, all round mean girl) has mailed me, within minutes of my arrival "No ring? :)"
It's just made me irrationally angry. I feel like they think it's some kind of shameful thing that I'm not engaged or that I'm not validated until a man proposes to me.
AIBU to be really pissed off about this? Can someone give me a response that will ensure they stop hassling me?!?
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brandnamecherrycola · 18/07/2016 10:17
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