OH just asked me what time I get up in the mornings, because he's getting a delivery for work early tomorrow.
It's no big deal but it's really annoyed me.
Mornings are always stressful and difficult. I have a 3 and 7 year old to get ready for nursery/school and the 3 year old is always difficult. There's never a spare second; we leave when we're ready.
Basically mornings are rushed and I do them by myself.
Whether OH is working or not he NEVER gets up to help me in the mornings, whether it's a weekday or a weekend. He's never given me a lie in, even when I requested that as a birthday gift. The only time he's helped in the morning is when I've had a migraine (completely bed ridden debilitated horror) and for a week or so after I started an AIBU thread here about him never helping by taking DD1 to nursery when DD2 was newborn. I'd like to add both kids were terrible sleepers and I've had two full night's sleep since DD2 was born.
So I am really irritated that he just expects me to rush downstairs to answer the door when I'm trying to wake myself up, battle the kids to get up, convince the 3 year old to get out of bed, get dressed, feed them, try to break up the squabbles and have them out the house with their things as close to our goal time as possible. If I have a spare 30 seconds I'd like take it to maybe grab a drink or chill out a bit. Not stand at the door waiting for the guy who's pressed the door bell then sodded off to the van or waste time with the chatty delivery guy when I need him to leave already so we can get ready and go.
I know I am being petty and I am resentful. But surely given how selfish he is with sleep he should put the door bell in his room (separate rooms as he moved out when the baby woke him in the night) and get up and deal with his delivery himself?!
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AIBU?
To think he should get out of bed to deal with his own delivery when I'm getting the kids ready for school.
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FamiliarSting · 08/06/2016 00:03
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