A few things have made me wonder if I'm too strict with my DC.
Twins are 4years old and also had my 6 year old niece with me today .
I took them to their swimming lesson . The changing area is open plan with the pool just beyond a door .
Noise travels and it's often hard to hear yourself think due to noise from the lesson and the children in the changing room .
Anyway in the waiting area , my twins and niece were goofing around - nothing major , they weren't being naughty as such but I did keep checking them - no running , keep the noise down , no spinning on the chairs etc.
They tend to get to the point of no return with regards to silliness - refusing to listen and the noise getting louder etc, so I tried to keep it in check before it got to that point .
I was getting strange / off looks from the other mums - their kids were being noisy , running etc and I thought maybe I was being unfair ?
After the lesson, my DC wanted to run on the lawn . This lawn is a small private lawn in the pool grounds which is clearly maintained for decoration - there's no path on or off the lawn and I assumed it's not for playing on . (The area is not created for children - it's next to an elderly home)
I told them they couldn't run on the lawn as it's private land and we kept on walking .
Two minutes later - we see all the DC chasing each other around the lawn .
Also, I never let my twins disturb my niece during her lesson and vice versa - but the other children were walking around the edge of the pool, shouting to each other etc whilst their siblings were in their lesson. The parents weren't bothered , but the teacher looked a bit fed up of it .
I never let my children run in restaurants . I expect them to behave sensibly and keep the noise to a minimum in places other than the park or big outdoor areas.
In the garden , I expect them to be louder but if it gets too much or is persistent , I remind them we have neighbours etc .
Friends think it's just children being children.
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Am I too strict ?
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DreamCloud99 · 22/04/2016 17:56
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