Every time I'm invited to a family meal or visit I always end up baby sitting SIL dc. Don't get me wrong they are lovely bright toddlers.
Its just I feel they are taken advantage of the fact I don't drink and assume I will watch the children, so they can go through bottles of wine.
I don't mind baby sitting when I have been asked to baby sit.
It's when they invite me to a family meal out and I'm the one having to help the children, take them to the loo, entertain them and watch them (oldest is a runner) it gets boring.
I've tried discussing it with Dp but that hasn't worked, ive also tried not doing the baby sitting role, but they just don't watch the children they'd rather have drinks and catch up with the adults while the runner is almost at the front door.
So am I being U thinking they are taking advantage?
It's got to the point I dont want to go out for family meals or visit the house.
And ofcourse if I start saying no to the invites it will cause issues. Mil and SIL always say you must visit the family because family are important. Which the family is. But why should I visit if I'm just treated like a baby sitter.
So aibu or are they being U??
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Chianablue · 29/03/2016 15:56
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