I've been good friends with someone for about 4 years.
I've been there for her when she's needed me - provided childcare and support when she went through a miscarriage
On the end of the phone and supportive when she was in bits as she accidentally hurt her child - talked her down when she was in tears and reassured her it wasn't her fault.
Looked after her DC all day when she was having another baby. Happiness and joy all round when baby arrived safely, etc.
I've never really asked for anything from her before...anyway..I've had a really difficult time lately, got diagnosed with depression and have a lot going on.
We were chatting by text and I decided to tell her I was having a bit of a bad time, depression etc...she replied "oh I'm sorry, we must meet up soon as I always enjoy venting at you, you always make me feel better etc etc, I'll message you with dates"
About three days later I get "I can do X date (three weeks away) or Y date (4 weeks away) after 10:30"
Incidentally, I work, and the dates she suggested are my working days. She doesn't work - I understand she probably keeps busy.
I just...I just...I'd make more of an effort, I think? Whenever she's needed me I've been there. Now I feel like me and my depression just need to fit into her schedule. Meh.
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Feel a bit letdown by a friend
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whenwegettonarnia · 05/03/2016 21:19
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