My parents had me fairly late in life (46 and 47). I'm 24 now and just about to embark on a professional career... I'm dating casually but no DP at all (in fact not yet had a serious boyfriend) and obviously no DC.
My parents keep young and healthy and are (touch wood) doing well. They both look like they're in their 50s still.
Every now and then my mum will say somewhat jokingly "don't leave having kids as late as I did!" and get a bit broody for grandchildren. I would love love love children but obviously need to meet the right person and get things in order first (career, spending time with DP before kids, travelling).
I just get a bit sad sometimes when I wonder realistically if they'll be able to meet their future grandchildren My dad in particular is getting a bit depressed and cranky as he ages and I just know grandkids would give him a second wind. They both adore children and would make brilliant grandparents.
Anyone else been in a similar position? I've always visualised my parents being hands-on grandparents and as time passes I feel like I'm denying them the opportunity. Sad really
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To be a bit sad my parents might not meet their future grandchildren?
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NervyNualaaa · 13/01/2016 03:49
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