A friend of many years died last night. She'd been involved in a freak accident, and was only 45 years old.
I'm a very private person, but felt very sad today and told two colleagues (separately). I said to the first that I was feeling upset because a friend died last night (no other detail at all) and she immediately said that a friend of hers had died two and a half years ago, and then talked about the funeral. That was then the end of the conversation as she left.
Later on I told another colleague, that a friend had died last night and that I was upset as she was relatively young. He said that a relative of his had died a couple of weeks ago, that she was 96 and it was in her sleep. They had to wait a long time for the funeral as the parlour was very busy. I then mentioned my friend again, but the subject was changed to striking junior doctors (also linked to his relative's life).
AIBU to think that they could have shown a little more interest and even sympathy? I didn't expect and hugs or anything, but a sad face would have been appreciated as I was feeling so upset.
I seem to be surrounded (at work, with friends, with family) by people who will take any conversation and immediately turn it into a discussion about them and their experiences.
AIBU or is this just normal? Thanks.
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AIBU?
To think that colleagues shouldn't *immediately* take sensitive topic in conversation and talk about their own experiences?
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CheekyMaleekey · 12/01/2016 20:31
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