I can't decide whether I am being overly sensitive here. Myself and MIL do not talk...at all no sign of reconciliation in the near future either. Have seen her at some occasions for DC over the year but there isn't even a polite nod or smile it's just a blank. Fine by me I am not that bothered. Now as it comes to Christmas it is a very big deal to both our family's DC is just over 1 and myself and DH don't want to do a Christmas just the three of us. I would not be welcome at his mums he would be more than welcome at my mums...but he has decided he will go to his mums and leave me and DC to go to my mums for dinner. We will have Christmas morning together. I am really sad about this. On one hand I do understand he wants to be with his mum sister and brothers as I do mine. Yet on the other hand I don't really have a choice I'm not welcome at his mums so there's no option for us all to go there yet there is the option for us all to go to my mums. My sister has said I need to get over it but it's made me feel quite sad now thinking about Christmas Day. Also my DC will be going to see the ILs but I've sAid only for an hour as I don't want to be without DC for too long. Again apparently I'm BU but as I said to DH this is not my choice I am not welcome in his mums so why should I have to be apart from my DC for too long. Am I sing a spoilt brat
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