I think it's ended anyway!
Long story, but I don't want to dripfeed.
I work with a friend of mine. We met through work and became very good friends, have socialised a lot outside of work, introduced our partners to each other etc. We have both confided in each other a lot, and she is the only person other than my husband who knows about a very difficult time I went through earlier this year. She was very sympathetic at the time.
Now, the place where we work is not a nice place. In fact, it's been a completely toxic environment for a good few months now. I've really struggled, and it all came to a head two weeks ago. I went to my GP and went to pieces. I've been diagnosed with depression and my GP gave me ADs and signed me off work for two weeks. I'm going back to the GP today and although I feel a little stronger and I am still totally anxiety ridden about going back to work. (As it's got closer I've not been able to sleep and have been panicking about it).
Now that you know the back story, what is REALLY upsetting me is that this 'friend' has not been in touch, at all. Not even a text. A few other people from work have dropped me a wee message just to say they are thinking of me, and that has been so appreciated. I have responded to thank them too.
WIBU to completely cut her out of my life? I cannot believe she could do this. Obviously her job is more important to her than her friends. It's really upset me, at a time where obviously I could do without this.
Also my husband saw her DP at a sporting event last week and he did not acknowledge or mention me at all. My DH will be seeing her DP again this week- I know he doesn't want it to be awkward but part of me wants him to say 'you know, ScarlettOHara8 is really upset that yourpartner hasn't been in touch at all' but to be honest I don't know what that will achieve.
I should mention I did text her last week to reach out and she ignored it. It's over isn't it?
It just really,really hurts.
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ScarlettOHara8 · 13/10/2015 12:03
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