I was on a train earlier today, a man got on with three young children. He sat down with his two younger children (one was a baby, the other a little older- about three) and the eldest child, a girl, walked up the aisle a bit and asked to sit next to me, and started chatting, she wanted to know how my bag fastening worked, so I showed her, expecting that her dad would call her to come back and sit with him.
Except...he didn't. And then she asked if I had things to draw with, so I got out a pen and some paper and helped her draw stuff, all the time desperately trying to catch her dad's eye for him to call her away. He made eye contact with me s couple of times but didn't do anything. She was a very nice little girl and I didn't want to upset her but at the same time I just wanted some peace and quiet on my train journey and not to be used as free babysitting by someone I don't even know. Then her little brother wanted to join in and started crying when she wouldn't let him. Finally, she started wanting to go through my handbag and play with my phone, headphones etc (I told her no) but I just couldn't take any more so I pretended I had to get off the train but just moved carriages instead.
AIBU or is this very strange behaviour on the part of the dad?
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AIBU?
To not want to babysit a stranger's child on a train journey?
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madamedesevigne · 31/08/2015 18:01
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