Grrrr! I'm really cross with dh and he thinks aibu, could do with some outside input please.
We go on holiday in 4 weeks. I am a size 12/14 and my 12s are a bit too tight atm. Don't want to look fat on holiday but I've been trying and failing to diet and do more exercise by myself. Spurred on by threads on here about it, I suggested to dh that we both do the 30 day shred together for this month before we go. Partly cos he needs to get fit too, partly to help my motivation, mostly because we just don't seem to do anything together these days. He agreed and we shook on it(!) 2 nights ago.
Last night we just didn't do it so tonight I mentioned it at about 6. We have 3 kids - 2 were in bed by 7.50, he then read to the other for 50 mins until I shouted up to tell him the time (ds1 is only 7 and was shattered before his story, he had a watch on and knew the time).
Then he came down and phoned his mum for a chat - he only speaks to her every couple of weeks and had no reason to call tonight. I was getting pissed off by now (9.15) but didn't say anything as I keep being accused of nagging. Then he said he had to send a quick email for work and spent half an hour on it. He's just sauntered in at 9.45 to put the bloody dvd on and then called me lazy when I don't want to start doing it now. It is turning into another stupid petty argument. Aibu??
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3boys3dogshelp · 03/08/2015 22:01
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