DP has this habit of digging his face right into my shoulder during sex. If he's not doing this, he's further away digging his face into the pillow. It's hardly romantic is it, that he can't be arsed to hold his head up during sex!! So this morning when he was digging his face into my shoulder I told him he was hurting me (bare in mind he has longish stubble too so it feels really sore). As a result he stopped completely. I told him that if he just stopped hurting my shoulder there wouldn't be an issue. He says there is no other way to do it we tried again and he immediately starts it again. I asked him to lift his head so I could look at him at least and he says it's not possible . He's managed before. He then decides he's too tired to carry on anyway and stops!!
AIBU to think he should care that I'm being hurt and also to think that this is a really lazy and disrespectful way to have sex on with someone?
AIBU?
To think DP should care that he's hurting me during sex?
Pained1 · 04/07/2015 08:23
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