Dp's cousin has a dog, it's a German Shepard puppy (8 months old so a big but still with the energy of a puppy) they have recently got this dog and it was badly treated at it's previous home.
We have a toddler who doesn't (well didn't) dislike dogs but he's not the sort of child who wants to go and stroke dogs he's happy to look at dogs from a distance.
We arrived at a relatives house yesterday (a mutual relative to both dp and his cousin) and the dog came running up to ds and licked his face, ds was terrified whilst the cousin said oh he just wants to be friends.
For the rest of the day whenever ds got down from his chair the dog came over to him and ds became upset, the dog even put his nose up between ds's legs to try to steal his food whilst he was sat up to the table eating.
Ds spent the afternoon clinging to me terrified of the dog, I tried to explain the dog was friendly but ds wanting nothing to do with the dog.
Aibu to think that if you have a boisterous dog that is speaking the attention of a scared child you keep the dog away? I was also a bit concerned that the dog's behavior could be unpredictable due to the neglect it had suffered in it's first home and also it's young age and I don't think I'd want ds to play with it even if he was not terrified.
I didn't say anything to the cousin as him and his wife have just had their 4th failed IVF and we have our toddler and a newborn and I know how hard dealing with infertility is so I didn't want to make them feel worse. We just cut the visit short and went home.
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Dog and toddler at family at family gathering.
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Stripylikeatiger · 27/12/2014 06:50
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