I wrote about this on another thread but I'm really losing my cool about it, maybe it's my hormones but I've had to put up for so long with my mum interfering with everything. I'll list you off a few recent things...
It's my daughters birthday next week and if pretty much bought everything, she's rang to say she's bought all the party food and when do I want it, I explained I already had it and she's now insisting I need to take it off her hands. As gifts she's also bought things I asked her not too, because of room or the fact the things are just too old for her that she won't bother for a while. Argh! last year she didn't want too many children at dd's party And said it should be a family thing for a few years, even trying to have the parties at her own house. She decided to take an instant disliking to a friend of mine and basically told her 'i don't like you, or your daughter' which this friend hasn't spoken to me properly since.
Insisting on feeding my daughter with McDonalds when she takes her out or comes to visit twice a week, if its not McDonalds its sweets, cakes or greggs! Apparently I'm just controlling with dds diet and let her be a kid, she will even buy her these things and tell me a week later.
Ringing and texting every hour to make sure I'm ok whenever we go out for long periods of time or for the day or a day out.
I'm only 13 weeks pregnant and she's bought everything for my hospital bag although I asked her not too as I don't like this done till the end, I don't want to jinx anything and my oh wanted to do me a nice hospital bag for me and baby, he told her this before and feels like one thing he found meaningful and nice was spitefully taken from him. She also bought loads of clothes when I said wait till 12 weeks, she's decided to tell me Shes bought loads And kept it a secret which is upsetting.
She won't let dd's other grandparents have her especially over night, she will kick off at even the mention and asking why she needs more than one set of grandparents and only those on the mother's side really matter!
I might seem ungrateful, but I'm not, I'm 25 and have had my own house with oh since I was 20, iv worked hard despite her thinking you shouldn't work when you have kids and no matter how many times I tell her to stop, she won't, or sometimes she will make me feel really guilty about it, I know she probably thinks she's doing it out of the goodness of her heart but it's driving me insane :(
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DragonFlyx · 04/09/2014 08:03
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