Argh!
Okay, so I'd been with DP for about a year. We split for a while because I moved away, but we are very much back together now (quite recent).
And don't get me wrong, he's really lovely, but I'm getting a tiiiiiiny bit frustrated in the bedroom.
When we first got back together, due to not seeing each other often and not being 'together' for a while, the lead up to sex was quite rushed (which was fine at the time!)
But I fear I may have convinced him this is what I always like, when actually, I don't
As soon as we get into bed now, we will kiss for all of 5 seconds and then BAM! His hand is in my knickers. Sometimes I knock his hand back and say 'not yet' but he just laughs and moves my hand out of the way and carries on ?!
He was never like this before! It's fine when we get going, but I fancy a bit more of a build up I guess.
As you can see by the time, I've been simmering about this for hours! AIBU to not be instantly turned on?!
He's insecure and I hate confrontation, so if we have to have a talk about it it's going to be mortifying
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AIBU?
To not just want a hand shoved down my pants?!
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nannynoss · 03/05/2014 04:37
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