I am pregnant so maybe it's just pregnancy hormones....
DSis is planning a wedding, she's been looking into options for a few months and has been phoning for my advice, thoughts etc on venues and ideas. Dh has been chuckling along the way by her phone calls and excitement, she asked me to be her chief bridesmaid and my ds to be page boy, it's only a small wedding of ten or so people, close friends and family.
Last night she phoned me to tell me she'd decided she doesn't like the UK options we looked at, so she's chosen a Caribbean hotel instead. She went on to say that she's booking the wedding for June, the same time as my baby is due. She said if my baby is early then maybe I could come, but if not then not to worry as she understands not everyone can make it as its abroad. I haven't spoken to parents about it but apparently they are fully supporting her plans.
I understand that she should choose the wedding she likes, but Aibu to feel hurt that after the zillion phone calls and asking me to be chief bridesmaid to just cut me out like this is a bit hurtful? I feel that even if my baby is early I won't go :-( dh was shocked by her rudeness and I'm really upset, plus if they are all celebrating abroad clearly no one will be bothered about supporting me with my new baby...
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penguinsforever · 29/12/2013 12:27
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