My first Aibu so please be kind, I may well be being a bit precious about this...
I've got a 'big' birthday coming up soon. Plan with DP was for the two of us to go to a v fancy lunch (we've both taken the day off, we have no DC) then a party in the evening. I invited DPs sis and her P to the party, although they live a while away. A few days ago DP was on the phone to his sister and I heard then arranging for her and her P to come down for the party, great. After their chat I said to DP I'm happy for them to stay that night (after the party) but would rather have the morning/lunch to ourselves as planned. He said fine.
Today she's sent a message 'confirming' with us both that she and her P will be staying both nights. I assume DP hasn't spoken to her. I now feel we're going to have to play host, make them breakfast, invite them to the lunch. Although I like them both, they're hardly close friends. DPs sister can be quite self centred (never asks me about me but talks a lot about herself) and is fussy about food so wouldn't like the lunch place we had planned to go to etc. I just don't particularly want to spend my whole birthday with them.
AIBU to be a bit miffed and ask DP when I see him this evening to tell his sister not to stay here the first night (they do have other friends in our town who they've stayed with before)? If so how can I explain my reasons so as not to offend him/her or make things awkward between us?
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TheMagicToyshop · 18/06/2013 17:16
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