Now, I'm sure I am being a bit unreasonable, but can I just rant a bit first?
Background, my exDickhead left nearly 2 years ago after I found out about his affair. He's now living with the OW and her DS a couple of miles away.
He's been pretty good about access, reliable and really wants to win back the boys' respect. (Except for taking lots of holidays which occasionally impact his access alternate weekends, where I feel I'm 'babysitting' for him. )
He knows I like the boys' hair a little longer and surfy. Not ridiculously long, just a few inches. He keeps getting their hair cut on his weekends. Quite short, not my taste at all.
TBH, DS2 (13 with SN) doesn't care. DS3 (10) is finding the whole divorce hard going and tries desperately to please his dad, so won't argue with him. DS1, (15) is pretty pissed off at being told when to get his hair cut. He'd like it a bit longer but he's very quiet and again doesn't want to risk his relationship with his dad. So he asked me to complain about it for him.
I was really upset the first time he did it, cut off their lovely locks. That was a year ago and he gets their haircut every 6 weeks or so, so it's never got very long since. I didn't say a word (to him or them) though, because I could imagine what AIBU would say.
This time, though, what should I do? DS1 is nearly 16. Surely he's old enough to make his own mind up about his hairstyle, so long as it's acceptable at school?
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EllenJanesthickerknickers · 20/05/2013 23:15
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