DP and DSs came to live with me and DS 6 months ago.
Here's the background:
DP was given full residency of his children following suspected abuse by their mother's partner. Mother was cautioned for neglect.
DP had nowhere to live at the time and so took the children to live with his parents. DP and I got together and things got bad between DP and parents. I offered them a temporary stay with me, parents objected and big row between DP and his mother.
They never went back as DPs parents refused to talk to him. We both tried repeatedly to get them to come and see the children but they refused. We offered phone contact in the interim - they refused.
During the time the children lived with them, they hit the children, used inappropriate language, swearing etc. Would not allow DP to parent or maintain a routine/boundaries. The SW involved said that they should not have unsupervised contact with their GPs.
Fast forward a bit, we get an application for Residency by the GPs. This is rejected by Court. Further application for contact, to consist of every other weekend Friday to Monday am, plus every Wednesday evening overnight. DP of course did not agree.
Family Group conference is suggested, the GP agree to it. Oh good, we thought, progress. But the FGC officer says they will not sit in the same room as us! They want to do "shuttle mediation"!
What is the fucking point? It's no different to going to court.
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BumpingFuglies · 14/02/2013 12:51
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