Jenna2012
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:01:36
Been reading various threads on mn with interest for several weeks now.why do u ladies feel do pessimistic about ur work life balance and compete with the ' oh poor me title'. If you want a better quality of life, surely u can downsize and have less financial Responsibilty and then look after ur dc yourself instead of paying others to look after them. I just don't get why you have kids unless you wanna love And look them yourself. This doesnt apply to single parents.is the financial gain worth it?
LucieMay
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:03:07
Oh dear. Sparks will fly methinks.
I dunno, ask my husband. he insists on working as well rather than see us starve. the selfish bastard.
ifancyashandy
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:03:53
<<SOUNDS KAXON!!!!!!!>>
And gets popcorn out whilst preparing to stay up all night...
Jenna2012
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:03:57
Lol!! Well I don't know, are u one of them tweasels?
Best of luck, OP.
You're about to get shredded.
WinklyVersusTheZombies
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:04:52
So should intelligent, driven, talented women who have plenty to contribute to the world tie themselves to the kitchen sink and sing nursery rhymes as SOON as they bag a man to finance them, or wait til they manage to procreate? 
Where would you like me to downsize to exactly? 
I think that I speak for most of us here in saying "Jog on, there's a dear!"
IAmSoFuckingRock
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:04:52
oh yipee! i love these ones.
<settles down with popcorn>
serin
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:04:54
Oh Jenna, if only life were so simple.
I have a feeling you are very young......
nkf
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:05:06
I don't think anyone will believe it, will they?
ifancyashandy
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:05:16
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roundtable
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:05:27
Shouldn't you be in bed?
What a ridiculous post.
nkf
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:05:34
I have a feeling she is new born.
TequilaMockingMagpie
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:05:42
Erm ok ....
Thank you for your insight .
Please be sure to drop by again anot
her day .
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Jenna2012
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:06:30
Nkf, I'm a sahm, who lives within my means because I believe I'm the best educator/ facilitator for my child. She will grow up and then I have time to focus on' my goals and desires'. Dp fully supports me.
Lolling straight back at you Jenna. Nice first post.
HomeEcoGnomist
Mon 26-Nov-12 23:06:51
IAmSo - are you a Tim Minchin fan by any chance?!